Being a wife is not that easy, everyday more and more questions will come to your life and some of it, will left you without answers. But the responsible is there, always there waiting for you. I've categorize my life into 3 circles.
Circle 1: From Monday to Friday, 8am to 5pm, in the office. Then after office hour, drive back, reach home, rest for a couple of minutes with a cup of melo or tea, day-dream a little bit. Later, entertain the children before cook dinner for the family. At 8pm, watching TV, explore the net and do some blogging. Half-past midnight, feel tired, then go to sleep. Morning at 6am, wake-up. Before going to work, clean the house a bit, washing some dishes, machine the cloths and put everything in place. Start the car engine, vroommm....office here is your slave!!Circle 2: Weekends - Morning: Clean the house, entertain children, go to the market and cook for lunch. Afternoon: do some baking, ironing cloths and do gardening a bit. Going out with frens only if the time is really free or got some other activities. Evening: prepare for dinner. Night: Watching TV, explore the net and blogging. This can be called a full-time attachment housewife huh?
Circle 3: Back to circle 1 and 2. And it will be repeated again and again, for the rest of my life.
Who should be blamed if you are not doing well in some part of your life? Imagine that, you become a wife to a husband that sometimes hardly wanna listen what you are trying to say. The lack of conversation between both of you. Yes, sometimes, you feel like you talking to the wall. But the different is; wall is better coz you can paint them as what colour you like. But can you paint your hubby? Imagine for a moment you painting them, with a zebra colour. Erkkk!hihihii...it should be called a revenge of a women! Well, definitely NO and what ever the situation is, he is still your hubby, the man who you've already choose to spend your entire life with. Whatever you explain about your point of view, he will not listen. He is "The Head of the Family", this is what we normally categorize them. To avoid argument and crisis, listen and obey what ever he think is right. You keep the silence voices inside you. The point is, let get it straight, what ever type of hubby you got there; husband is a husband, No Compliment.
wahh you life full of activity so nice... your husband must be lucky guy!!! may god bless your life with the one you love....
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